Sharing a few of my own black and white photos with shadows. Enjoy.Continue reading “Cee’s Black and White Challenge: Shadows and Reflections”
Walking through the construction dust and garbage bags filled with clothes, I pause to reflect on my journey after the loss of my husband.
It’s been a little over three years since that life changing event happened to me and my children. The horrific details of that night I have forced myself not to dwell on and trained my brain, for my own sanity, to redirect my thoughts and keep moving forward. I have done that pretty well.
Surprisingly, I still have moments of melancholy and stabs of aching pain in my heart. It just doesn’t happen as often as it used to and I lead a pretty normal and good life most of the time.
Year 1 was really a blur. I lived through it. I cried. I dealt with paperwork. I walked around in a FOG. I clung to family and friends and familiar situations. I tried to escape. I dealt with more paperwork. I started a lawsuit for a wrongful death.
In my town of Huntington, New York numerous signs are posted that state George Washington slept here or this was part of the Washington Spy Trail. I had no idea what this all meant but was always a bit curious. I’ll head to Europe or Thailand and visit historical monuments and memorials, and here I have history at my back door, so it was time to learn a bit more.
Luckily I found a walking historical tour that was right up my alley…
Renting a car in the middle of London is a challenge for us yanks who are used to driving on the right side of the road. Instead of traffic lights it seems we were constantly challenged with traffic circles that were unlabeled. OK, there were some traffic lights but those roundabouts scared me. It took us almost 2 hours to drive south to Stonehenge. I had never seen this wonder of the world and was a bit curious.
It is oddly located out in the middle of fields near the town of Amesbury. Archaeologists believe it was built between 3000 BC and 2000 BC. Much research has been done including Radiocarbon dating which indicate Stonehenge was a burial ground and that the 2 ton blue stones, which may have been believed to have special qualities, were likely moved from Wales by lifting them and carrying them with rows of poles. A tourist center is near the car park where some videos and artifacts are displayed, along with a gift shop and dining area.
Packing for a trip to England in early April can be tricky. Will it be cold? Will it be warm? Well one thing is certain. It will rain. Hours before my departure I found a stylish Michael Kors black raincoat. I wrapped my olive green scarf from Thailand, complete with elephants, around my neck and tossed a few lightweight dark colored sweaters, black pants and comfy black boots in the suitcase. I reread my blog post on how to alleviate anxiety while traveling. I was ready for London.
International flights from JFK are the way to go. The roads from Long Island and the terminals are well lit and labeled. Long term parking is s bit of a maze to reach but once parked you easily board the train which circles the airport and brings you directly to your terminal.
We flew Virgin Atlantic and the overall experience was fine. We had a nice selection of movies to watch, 2 small meals on the direct flight to London and unlimited cocktails!
The best part about visiting Montauk in the winter is the price tag.
Off season beach towns are the best! Montauk is one of those fishing towns that welcomes tourists for the few summer months with hotels, restaurants, mini-golf and shops and then puts closed for season signs on the windows in the winter for many of the businesses.
The ocean changes it’s personality day by day, and season by season. Water can be calm and soothing to the soul, it can reflect inner turmoil with waves of fury, or it can create waves that escalate into grand crescendos and softly release and melt back into sea with few ever having witnessed the moment. Watching the sea is one of my favorite things to do. And in the winter, you can even afford an oceanfront room so you can watch from inside with a cup of coffee in your favorite pajamas and slippers!
Visiting Montauk with family in the summer is ideal. If you need a girlfriend spa weekend getaway this is a perfect location for indulging in spa activities while even staying for an overnight. If it is the romantic night away, Montauk is the place. And even if you are alone, and need a day to reflect and rejuvenate your life, an overnight in Montauk can do the trick.
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